bEaUtY iN dIsGuIsE?!?!

Reality of life in human relationships;
Some people will love you, some people will dislike you...
Again another part of experience in life, another differences that happens in life...

Most people are affected by the fact of people disliking them...
Some would be trapped in between...
Nevertheless, concentrating on this fact would bring one no where...
Wondering why?
Trying to please both parties?
Trying to redeem yourself?

Like what said...
dIfFeReNcEs MaKeS tHe WoRlD wHoLeSoMe!!!
LiFe Is BeAuTiFuL wHeN yOu LeArN tO sEe ThE bEaUtY!!!

My humble opinion,
1. Thank God for this happening...
If everything is perfect, then what is life? you are blessed with another experience... another thing in life that you can learn although things is though/difficult...
EXPERIENCES are the GREATEST TEACHER in life!

2. Appreciate the emotions that you are feeling...
It is a blessings that you can have emotions and you can feel all the feelings that you felt... Shows that you are still alive.. that you are a human... allow yourself to feel every emotions although is hurting or aggitating...
EMOTIONS are the STRONGEST ASSETS in life!

3. Accept the fact of differences. (One being disliked and disliking)
Everyone is different. Some may dislike you, some may envy you, some may not be comfortable with you. Vice Versa!
Be honest... you do feel different about different people...
Simple example... Every part of your body is different..
fingers-middle finger is longer than the rest of your fingers,
upper body and lower body-some are proportionate some are not..
somehow or rather everything is different, even some parts you personally dislike...
but when looking at yourself as the whole, you accepted all the differences even the ones you dislike...
you still dress up, step out and go on with life...
Be at peace with yourself and the differences...
Why not channel you FOCUS/ENERGY to something more FRUITFUL?HAPPY instead of locking yourself in depression of redeeming?

4. Follow your heart. (One torn between parties)
There is no right or wrong in human relationship. Its your own choice and decision in chosing and wanting to have relationships with the people you chose, people you are close to, people whom you respect, even the people you allow to hurt you...
Anything that happens to you is your own responsibility although its concerning others...
There is nothing to explain, nothing to clarify... Appreciate those who are around you...
Differences is the blessings that you get to experience...
Why not channel your energy in MAKING THE BEST of both instead of jailing yourself in depression of merging both party or pleasing either party?

food for thoughts;

YoU aRe ThE mAsTeR oF yOuR oWn LiFe!!!
trust yourself... trust your instinct... follow your heart...

ChAnGe BeGiN wHeN yOu TaKe ReSpOnSiBlE!!!
fOr ThInGs To ChAnGe, I mUsT 1sT cHaNgE!!!

eMoTiOnS aRe HuMaN eXpErIeNcE!!!
UpSeTs ArE OpPoRtUnItIeS tO lEaRn ThE tRuTh!!!
allow emotions to come through... acknowledge it...feel it...

hard? easy?
tHe MoSt PoWeRfUl FoRcE i HaVe Is WhAt I tElL mYsElF & i BeLiEvE!!!

p/s: what is writen is only brief...
beep me if you wanna understand more...